But he was always there.
And over time, he came to believe that showing up consistently, year after year, in the quiet and unglamorous ways that nobody applauds, was the thing that mattered most.
Ainsley grew up kind and funny and quietly determined in a way that her father never quite took personal credit for, because even now he is not entirely sure where that quality in her came from.
She moved through the world with a warmth that drew people toward her and a steadiness that surprised adults who expected something more fragile from a girl raised in tight circumstances.
By the time she was finishing high school, Brad was working as a foreman, living in a house he had bought with years of overtime, and feeling something that was very close to proud.
The night of her graduation, he stood at the edge of the gymnasium floor with his phone in hand and tears already building behind his eyes before they even called her name.
When they did call her name and she walked across that stage, he clapped so loudly that the man standing beside him turned to look.
He did not care even slightly.
He drove home that night still smiling, still carrying that particular warmth that only comes when something you worked very hard for finally arrives in the form you always hoped it would.